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This posed action picture was taken at the Eau, Palm Beach. As a South Florida based photographer, I shoot lots of weddings in Palm Beach. For this photo I wanted to convey drama and action. By photographing the bride and groom against the back-lit spray of water from the Eau's pool fountains I was able to convey drama. For the action part, I asked the groom to kiss her hand and then look at each other and laugh after the kiss.

Tips for posing.

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Every newlywed couple has one or two of their best wedding pictures hanging on their wall or sitting on their mantel. In this age of social media, they’ll probably want to post a few wedding pictures on Facebook or Instagram as well as other social media websites. People love great pictures of themselves, especially ones that are flattering. Flattering portraits are a great way to remember one of the best days of your life, They are also great conversation starters. Everyone wants to have a picture perfect wedding along with great wedding photos to display.  However, achieving that mantel worthy shot is not always easy especially for camera shy people.  Unless you’re a model or an actor, you’re probably not used to standing in front of a camera.  Many people are also not aware that there are actual techniques and rules for posing and looking good. Sure there is the occasional selfie or group photo at a party that happens to come out great, but none of those can really compare to posing for bridal portraits. There is often a lot of pressure when posing for wedding photos because unlike those amazing photos that you see in all those bridal magazines, your wedding day is not staged and you usually won’t get a do over. A little practice in front of a mirror will help you get past the fear of being in front of lens. This article on tips for posing, will help you come up with different poses so that your pictures are not static and you always look great.

This guide on tips for posing along with this article, should be a real confidence builder.
If you are camera shy, or afraid to pose for the camera, these easy to follow tips could help.

BELOW: Action Posing, If you feel awkward simply standing in front of the camera, you can break the awkward ice by simply walking. One walking sequence can become several different poses by simply changing where each person is looking. For this photo, the couple is looking at each other. I also shot the couple looking forward smiling as well as the groom looking at the bride and the bride looking at the groom. It’s true that you many have to walk, then reset and walk again, and even again.  Each time you should change up the pose.  First look at each other, then the bride can look at the camera while the groom looks at the bride, maybe the groom could kiss her hand while walking.  Have fun with this, I think you will find that this is one of the most fun tips for posing you will find.  This photos of Stacie & Jason was taken at Broken Sound Country Club in Boca Raton, Florida.

One fun and easy tip for posing is to walk for the camera. This wedding picture taken at Broken Sound Country Club.
This walking wedding photo was taken at Broken Sound Country Club.
Bride and groom posing for their Boca Raton Resort and Club wedding.
Is this even a pose. If looks like the groom is just holding her hand and smiling. However, when you break it down you can see, his weight is on one leg. He is looking at her, when she looks at her flowers. Could you guess what came next? How about the same post, but with both looking at the camera, then the groom looking at the camera while she looks at him. Maybe he could then kiss her hand. This one set could actually result in 4 -6 different pictures.

Most good photographers will help you with posing. However, it is really up to you to convey the facial expression which comes in part from being confortable with your photographer and confident that your poses will look good. In part, it’s the genuine emotion that helps bring the photographs to life. That being said, here are a few tips for posing to help you pose for your wedding pictures. Also, these posing tips will apply for your honeymoon photos as well as other vacation photos.  The photo below was also taken at the Boca Raton Resort and Club.   I’m sure you could tell looking at the photos in this article I photograph many weddings in Boca Raton.   I’m actually based in Boynton Beach which is just north of Boca Raton.  I cover all of South Florida and have even photographed many weddings through out the Caribbean.

The groom holding the brides hand is another easy way for couples to pose. This shot taken at Boca Raton Resort and Club can be broken up into several different shots. Here the groom is looking at the bride while she looks at her flowers. Another similar pose could be the bride looking at the camera, while he looks at her. For this pose they could look at each other, or she could look at the groom while he smiles for the camera. This one simple pose could potentially make several different photos.

ABOVE For this casual bridal photo of Jessica and Steven, Steven shifted his body weight to his back leg. This allowed him to lightly place his forward foot on the ground resulting in a very slightly bent knee. This may seem subtle but the end result is a more relaxed casual portrait. This casual wedding portrait was taken at Boca Raton Resort and Club.

Put Your Best Foot Forward
Another tip for posing is to shift your weight.  When posing for a wedding picture, it is advisable to shift most of your weight to your back foot. Since you only need one leg to stand, one foot takes your weight and your other foot becomes your posing foot. By doing this, a girl has many different options in regards to the leg without the weight. For example, you could cross one leg behind the other for a pose with more attitude. This pose usually results in very flattering pictures and is also very simple and versatile.

BELOW, Use your hands to create a more intimate look. Using hands in posing is a good way to become more comfortable with your pose. Hands also create a connection point between the couple. Remember, too many hands will ruin the photo. I always tell my clients, “One Hand Per Person Max” You don’t want her hand on top of his hand on top of his other hand. This photo of Erin and Matt was taken at South Beach Park in Boca Raton, Florida

One of my favorite tips for posing is to use hands. Hands in posing will make you more confident in front of the camera.
She kisses his face while he looks at the camera. This pose works well and can be altered to make several different shots. It’s up to the photographer to direct the couple into several unique poses. By simply telling the couple to look at the camera, then look at each other, then have him kiss her, the can actually become several different but similar pictures.

It’s All in The Arms
Instead of having your arms hanging limply at your side, which is often unflattering, you could always stand next to each other and put your “inside” arm around your partner’s waist. Then you can either hold hands in front or the groom can put his hand in his pocket or hold the brides hand – these are classic poses that will add a sense of timelessness to your photos. They are also really simple and you can use them when taking pictures at the beach during your Florida destination wedding or the balcony of a beautiful hotel.

BELOW: Here is Erin and Matt again, For this photo taken for their engagement session, I used a telephoto zoom lens. The telephoto lens creates what is know as compression. It’s this compression effect that pulls the ocean in the background closer to the couple. The telephoto lens also flatten facial features making a more beautiful portrait.

Fun poses are a favorite tips for posing. This South Florida beach engagement picture was easy with a simple pose.
I have to admit, I do this pose all the time. First it’s a fun pose to do because asking the girl to lay on top of the guy always gets a reaction. The couple always thinks this pose is crazy and may not look good. However, if done correctly this pose is always a big hit! I shot this at a beach in Boca Raton in which there was unique ground cover at the end of a sandy beach. I wanted the green ground with ocean in the background, so I kept a low angle and cropped out the sand.

Remember that it usually looks better if one hand is doing something in the photo. For example, a hand on a girl’s hip or the groom holding his jacket closed will always look better than a hand hanging straight down.

BELOW: In this photo of Rachel her hand helps guide the viewer to her incredible eyes. This photo was also shot with a telephoto lens 105mm which pushed forward the defocused background separating Rachel from the colorful background. Hands in pictures become a major factor in my tips for posing guide.  This photo was taken at Marisol Country Club in Palm Beach Gardens, FL

Bride with amazing eyes photographed at The County Club at Mirasol.
This photo was taken at The Country Club at Mirasol, it’s a simple pool side photo.

Lens Magic
I am going to let you in on a well kept secret tip for posing.  – whatever body part is closest to the camera lens appears bigger. If you want a slimmer waist, push your hips away from the lens and lean the top part of your your body toward the lens. In short, you should move whatever body part you want to emphasize closer to the camera and push away whatever part you want to diminish. Only an inch or 2 will make a huge difference. Following this rule will help the camera serve your best features.  Out of all my tips for posing, this single tip will make the largest difference.  

BELOW: Here is another example of how a telephoto lens helps to make the background look closer to the bride and groom. This photo of Denise and Alex was take at the Boca Raton Beach Club.

The beach club at The Boca Raton Resort is a fantastic place for engagement pictures.
Did you know that the Boca Raton Resort and Club actually consists of two hotels? One is the main hotel and the other is actually the Boca Raton Beach Club. This couple got married at the main hotel but decided to have their engagement shoot at the Beach Club.

You could also have your photographer zoom in for a more flattering appearance. Telephoto lenses create what’s known as compression which flattens facial features. Have you ever watched a televised sporting event in which the camera is far from the athletes? Notice how the background appears to be right behind the athlete when it’s actually a far distance behind? This is telephoto compression at work. Lens compression in a wedding photo makes the nose appear smaller, flattens the eye sockets and pushes back the chin. It’s better for your photographer to stand further away and zoom in than be too close and use a wide angle. As a South Florida Wedding Photographer, I’m always shooting at the beach. Since the beach offers lots of room, it’s easy for me to stand far away and zoom in. This creates the illusion that the person being photographed is standing much closer to the water.

BELOW: You could see in this photo how the groom “Joey” has his weight on his right foot. This allows him to slightly place his left foot forward making a more relaxed portrait. In order to show more of the bride ” Marissa’s” dress I did what I call a relaxed separation pose. She is not fully attached to the groom but offset by simply having her arm hook the groom’s arm.  Posing doesn’t always have to require a couple being connected together.  A simple touch of the shoulder or a hook of the arm is all that it takes to draw a connection between people.  In my tips for posing I consider a simple touch a form of a pose.  

Bride and Groom doing a casual wedding day pose at Broken Sound Country Club.
This wedding picture was taken at Broken Sound Country Club. One of my favorite wedding venues, the grounds are expansive. We borrowed the venue’s golf cart to reach this additional location.

Emphasize Your Best Side
Perfectly symmetrical faces are rare, meaning that although both sides of your face look the same, there are subtle differences to be seen. It is for this reason that you will often hear people mentioning their ‘good side’; this is the side of their face that they find more appealing. If you do not know which side is your best, you could always take selfies with your face tilted towards the left and then the right, you can compare them side by side and decide which side you like best. You could even get a friend or a partner to help you out. Once you have a ‘good side’ you can emphasize it while having your bridal portraits taken.  In addition most people have different sized eyes.  One rule is to turn your head so that your smaller eye is closer to the camera lens.  Just like the posing tip of what is closer to the lens is larger, the same applies to eyes.  Moving the smaller eye to the lens will make it appear larger.  I always use this when I’m applying my tips for posing at a wedding, engagement or portrait session.  

BELOW: By applying my tips for posing and placing all his weight on one leg this groom was able to use his other leg to complete this pose.

This groom used one of my tips for posing and placed his weight on one leg.
Most guys including myself don’t love to pose. However, by just shifting your weight to one foot allows anyone to turn a simple stance into a pose.

BELOW:  I shot this bride and groom photo at Stonebridge Country Club in Boca Raton.  If you are recently engaged and looking for a great wedding venue then this is a great location to check out.  Not everyone wants a beach location.  If a nice wedding venue that offers a lake and some nice architecture then Stonebridge is another venue to visit.  My using my tip for posing and using hands in the photo this picture has a more romantic feel.

This bride and groom wedding photo was taken at Stonebridge Country Club. It’s a really simple shot which is enhanced but the beautiful back lighting.

Take Action
Action photography is a good way to take your mind off the your expression while doing something. Just smile and walk. Have your photographer stand in front of you and walk backwards while you walk towards your photographer. The act of walking will help break that frozen “deer in the headlights” facial expression. If walking as a couple, you have many options. You could both look forward, or you could look at each other. The guy can look at the girl or she could look at him. By using the walking pose a photographer can shoot many different poses in only a matter of seconds.

BELOW: Another walking action shot. For this Florida Beach Engagement Photo the bride and groom took a walk along the shore line. I had to have them walk past me several times until her dress blew in just the correct way. When using the technique of walking for the camera a couple can have fun and get great pictures. The walking idea in my tips for posing article. works wonders in engagement photography.   If you are interested in a Palm Beach wedding than you should visit the Eau Palm Beach.  This engagement photos was taken on the private stretch of beach behind the Eau’s pool deck.

By having someone lead and the other person follow it’s easy to capture both faces. It’s very important to use a small F-stop to hold focus on both people.

With all these tips and tricks, you can now confidently take amazing wedding pictures. I have been a South Florida wedding photographer for a while now and I have learned that nothing looks better on camera than a genuine smile. So here’s one last piece advice on your wedding day be happy, stay relaxed and be yourself, it is your day after all

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